Friday, September 24, 2010

My DO'S && DONT'S

For quite some time I have been thowing these little DO'S and DON'TS onto paper, there just some of lifes little lessons I have learned and now I am deciding to share with you all! Feel free to add more :)


**1. DON'T: regret anything for any reason.  Every choice and action you have ever made in your life has made you into the person you are today
*2. DO: be yourself, if people don't like you for who you are, then that is there problem.
*3.DON'T: look back and wish you did things differently, do things how you want them done now so you can't have the opportunity to say you wish you could go back
**4. DO: know a TRUE friend is someone you can tell anything to-- like if you murdered someone, you can tell them and not have to say "don't tell anyone" because they already know not too..
*5. DO: forgive people.  Do it for yourself so your not an angry person, I have found its much easier to live that way.
6.DO: set a great example.  Never slack off, always show people that you are serious about what you do, thats how you get people to belive in you.
*7. DO: go crazy shopping every once in awhile, its amazing how it can help! Haha
*8.DON'T: let people put you down. When people tell you your idea won't work, be determined to prove them wrong :)
*9.DON'T: ever try to fully understand guys.. its not going to happen BUT...
*10. DO: understand yourself.. make time to do things for yourself, life is about figuring out who YOU are
**11. DO: remember the most important thing ANYONE can give you, specially guys, is RESPECT and LOVE. Let people love you.
*12. DON'T: waste your time trying to mold people into the person you want them to be
*13. DO: what makes you happy, and understand what makes you not
14. DON'T: let your guard down.. by trusting everyone you meet! most people let you down.. and the ones that don't are the ones you want to keep around.
15. DO: make time for yourself
16. DO: let people know how much they mean to you, because you never know when your going to lose that chance
17. DON'T: take advantage of the time you have with your grandparents, I always said I would go visit and go visit.. until I realized it was to late!
18. DON'T: judge others from what you hear, get to know someone for who they TRULY are before you decide how to portray them..
19. DON'T: lose touch with family, afterall they are the ones that are going to be there for you through thick and thin
20. DO: take a little time out of everyday to reflect on your goals and think about your dreams.. which leads to
21. DO: FOLLOW YOUR DREAMS! Big or small, you can do anything that you set your heart out to do, even if it takes alot of work to get there :)
22. DO: pilates!!
23. DON'T: diet.. they never work! Be healthy!
24. DO: beleive in god
25. DO: listen to music, all types!
26. DO: sleep with 8732974297 MILLIOOON pillows :)
27.DO: read, read. && READ! (im reading 13 reasons why right now, WAYYY awesome book)
28. DO: CRAFTS! So much fun :) be creative in everything you do
29. DON'T: care what people think and
30. DON'TDON'TDON'TDON'T:  BE JEALOUS!!
31. DON'T: think that $$MONEY$$ is everything..
32. DO: keep in touch with old friends
33. DON'T: be a texta/shopaHOLIC like me.. hahah
34. DON'T: waste time waiting for people to come to you, go out and TALK to people if you want to get to know them :)
35. DO:DO:DO: BE UNIQUE!!
36. DO: learn from your OWN mistakes, not the mistakes of others..
37.DO: GET AN EDUCATION!
38. DON'T: take life for granted
39. DO: LIFE LIFE TO THE FULLEST, i know you hear people say that all the time and live as if everyday is your last. but its true..


-- I know there are tons I havent thought of.. but I will think of them.. and them to my post someday! xoxoxo

2 comments:

  1. I think I LOVE you even more if that is even possible!!!! You have said things that I really need to hear. You are an amazing part of our family and I couldn't live without you Koko!!!! :)

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  2. I like your thoughts and sayings.....very wise! :) What is the book you are reading about and who is the author?

    Maybe you should be a motivational speaker or a life coach......worth looking into!

    Love you! XOXOXOXOXOXO

    Sweet M of P

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